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Parenting doesn't have to be a battle. Jaci Finneman shows you how to turn your parenting problems into "No Problem" and become the Confident Leader your kids crave you to be.
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Thursday Sep 09, 2021
Thursday Sep 09, 2021
Hello No-Problem Parents! Do you ever feel like you just can't win with your kids?
Are you constantly battling with them? Arguing? Explaining? Demanding?
All of these are types of resistance!
Today you'll learn a bit about why resistance causes our kids to lie and misbehave even more than usual,
and I share a few ideas on how you can stay out of the battle and problems
which allows your kids to trust you and come to you when they make mistakes.
Check out Episode 23 "I'm Sorry Isn't Enough" Introducing the Make It Right Technique
Become a No Problem Parent Today!
Wednesday Sep 01, 2021
Wednesday Sep 01, 2021
Welcome Back to The No-Problem Parenting Podcast!
Today my guest is going to talk with us about all things,
healthy diet and nutrition for our kids,
how to get our kids interested in eating healthy,
why modeling mindful eating is a mature choice that parents make and
she’ll share the hard truth about how stress and hurry – using our busyness as an excuse for poor eating habits
can actually mean you are being lazy!? Say what?
Katie understands that convenience is important so she’s gonna show us how we CAN feed our kids the easy snacks sometimes and feel good about it AND how we can prevent irritability and over active behaviors in our kids by choosing better go to snacks and meals.
Friday Aug 27, 2021
Friday Aug 27, 2021
Welcome Back to The No-Problem Parenting Podcast!
Are you a new momma and preparing for your baby to arrive?
Getting the nursery ready, going to birthing classes, creating your birthing plan?
Have you decided whether or not you will breast or bottle feed your baby?
Everybody’s feeding goals are unique to them, some mommas bottle feed, some breast feed the first few weeks and then transition to bottle while other mommas breast feed for the first year or two or more!
Todays guest is going to bust some breastfeeding myths, give some tips and tools on how to help you and your baby when breast feeding isn’t working so great And resources for moms who plan to breastfeed and return to work.
Thursday Aug 19, 2021
Thursday Aug 19, 2021
Welcome back to the No Problem Parenting Podcast, where we choose to deal with and overcome the emotional and behavior challenges in our homes.
Today’s episode is about overcoming trauma and despair. The importance of self-love, and how embracing YOU embracing yourself begins with acknowledging your feelings and tending to them – so that you can create the life you and your children deserve.
My guest today is a survivor of trauma, abuse, fires and a near drowning all of which inspired her to become a writer and advocate for others who have endured tragedy.
She is an author whose mission is to help children thrive in emotional well-being by developing a strong internal emotional strength. Her books include self-help collections, about the power of forgiveness and learning to surrender to life and more recently a fairytale series titled The Bella Santini Chronicles.
Thursday Aug 12, 2021
Thursday Aug 12, 2021
Welcome Back, Parents! Today's topic is about communicating with your teenage daughter.
Have you ever asked your daughter a simple question and something about her tone made you pause and think, “Where did that come from’? Or maybe it’s the sudden streams of tears and the uncontrollable crying that make her not even know why she’s sad? Or perhaps she’s developed an unbelievable attitude that seems to have come out of nowhere, and you’re saying to yourself, “I don’t even know who she is anymore!”
My guest today is Jeannie Baldomero and she is going to share with us Why there's a disconnect with our daughters in those pre-teen and teenage years, how to communicate and hold a conversation and 3 of her favorite tips for parents who are struggling in their relationship with their daughters.
Become a No Problem Parent Today!
Tuesday Aug 10, 2021
Tuesday Aug 10, 2021
Hello Parents! Welcome Back to The No-Problem Parenting Podcast!
Today we're going to talk about how your Mindset Matters!
Your mindset is a set of beliefs that shape how you make sense of the world and yourself. It influences how you think, feel, and behave in any given situation.
People with a fixed mindset believe your abilities are fixed traits and that they can't be changed. You may also believe that your talent and intelligence alone leads to success, and effort is not required.
On the flipside, if you have a growth mindset, you believe that your talents and abilities can be developed over time through effort and persistence. People with this mindset believe they can get smarter or more talented if they work at it.
Now of course there are things in life that are out of our control, TODAY we're talking about the things that ARE in our control and what happens when we acknowledge and take ownership of our lives and SHOW UP for ourselves FIRST so that we can be the confident parent and leader our kids crave us to be!
Thursday Jul 22, 2021
Thursday Jul 22, 2021
Hey Parents! Welcome back to the No-Problem Parenting Podcast, Where we choose to deal with and overcome behavior problems in our home.
Are your preschoolers and elementary age children constantly asking for screen time?
Do you wish there was another product or device that your kids would be just as or even more excited about than their tablet or video game? There is! Learn about TONIES in today's episode.
Become a No Problem Parent Today!
Friday Jul 16, 2021
Friday Jul 16, 2021
WELCOME BACK PARENTS! When your child misbehaves, causes a problem for or hurts someone, is your go-to response; "Tell me you're sorry!" or "You better say sorry!"?
Yep! Often times it is our go-to response! I'm excited to share another option for your kids to learn the effects of their behavior on others and how allowing them to make up for their mistakes or wrong doing, builds character and self-esteem!
Introducing the Make it Right Technique.
Wouldn't it be better to teach your kids to make right what they did wrong?
Apologizing for the misbehavior or unkind behavior is "icing on the cake" and of course we DO want our kids to apologize AND we also want them to "mean it"!
Robbing our kids of a valuable lesson by only expecting them to apologize actually sets the stage for more misbehavior!
Have you ever been hurt or wronged and then lied to? That's often exactly what happens when we make a child say they're sorry when they really aren't! Think about that for a minute.
It goes like this; your child hits another child (maybe out of frustration or because the other did something mean) and you interject with a "you better say sorry". Guess what? Likely, your child is NOT really sorry.
While there is no excuse for hitting or hurting others, instead of forcing our children to apologize, let's teach them a way to, make right what they did wrong and increase the odds they won't repeat the same behavior!
And guess what? After making it up to the person they caused a problem for, most often your child will offer an "I'm Sorry" all on their own! It comes authentically from the inside out! So Great!
Disclaimer: Use this technique only after you and your child are calm, and the problem behavior is “over”. Be sure neither of you are in fight nor flight mode when using this technique. If you or the child become upset while having the conversation, stop and try again later. The goal is for the child to make right what they did wrong and make it up to you (or whomever they harmed or caused a problem for), not to punish them.
You are teaching that when we make a mistake or cause a problem for others, we can correct the mistake and make it up to the people that were involved or affected.
This can be used with any person your child’s behavior causes a problem for including siblings, teachers, classmates, coaches, you as the parent or others. And, YOU can model this behavior with your kids! After those epic parenting fail moments when you fly off the handle or do something that causes a problem for your kid! YOU can Make It Right with them!
If you are not sure whether it’s an appropriate technique for your situation be sure to check in with me! jaci@noproblemparents.com
Tuesday Jul 13, 2021
Tuesday Jul 13, 2021
Welcome back No-Problem parents! Hey, has your home become a source of stress and disorganization?
Did you know that your environment has a direct impact on you and your kids wellbeing?
My guest today is Natalie Mel, she’s a Certified Holistic Health Specialist, Transformational Nutrition coach & Organizing Maven.
Her mission is to help break the cycles & patterns of generational dis-ease and she believes that every child has the right to grow up in a healthy home, and that starts with healthy parents.
Wednesday Jul 07, 2021
Wednesday Jul 07, 2021
HELLO No-Problem Parents! Are your little kids reading this summer? or, are YOU
or your big kids reading to your little kids?
Today's special guest Joanne Cooper is going to share with us 3 techniques to achieve 100% Reading Engagement!
So whether its you, the parent, reading to your littles or their older siblings, nanny, daycare provider or grandparent, listen in and learn how to help your children engage while being read to.
These books were written by Joanne, a grandmother and illustrated by her 11 year old grandson.
"The Adventures of Kona & King" and "Kona and King Rockin' the Holidays and Other Special Days" are interactive books written in rhyming poem format, asking questions to stimulate children's imaginations and initiate conversations.
Kona and King are two real life Labrador Retrievers upon which the book is based.