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Hey There Parenting Peeps! Welcome to the No Problem Parenting Podcast! Meet Jaci Finneman, the heart and soul behind No-Problem Parenting™ and your go-to parenting advocate. From toddler tantrums to teen eye rolls, attachment breaks, explosive meltdowns, and overwhelmed stressed-out parents, Jaci’s been rocking this parenting gig for over 30 years, and she’s here to share the real-deal tips and tricks outside of the therapy room. Subscribe now, strengthen your family connection, and bring the fun back to parenting. #Parenting #NoProblemParents #ParentingSuccess #NoProblemPodcast You Got This! No-Problem!
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Welcome to the first part of our special Holiday Harmony Series on No Problem Parenting! In this episode, we're tackling the challenges of temper tantrums during holiday shopping and events with a 'No Problem' approach. Let's dive into the key tips:
1. Seek First to Understand:
- Take a moment before heading out to understand your child's perspective. Are they tired, hungry, or overstimulated? Recognize potential triggers for tantrums, considering their history with events, shopping, or late nights followed by early mornings.
2. Prepare for the Worst:
- Before entering the store or event, prep your child for what to expect. Communicate that if they struggle, they can let you know, and you'll do your best to help. Set expectations about not buying treats until after the outing and establish a plan for handling meltdowns. Pack a bag with snacks, a favorite toy, and a comfort item. Consider calling in reinforcements or having a friend on standby in the parking lot for support.
3. Change the Conversation:
- Instead of reacting negatively to tantrums, redirect their attention positively. Use distraction, the 'Columbo' technique, or give permission for the child to express frustration. Engage in a game or discuss something positive about the holiday experience. Offer conditional praise for handling frustration well during the shopping trip.
Remember, it's okay to handle tantrums in a way that works for both you and your child, maintaining the holiday spirit without unnecessary stress. Stay tuned for the next part of our Holiday Harmony Series on No Problem Parenting!
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Are you ready to become a No-Problem Parent?
Start here: Becoming a No-Problem Parent Parenting on-demand training.
To learn more about Parenting Support or to pick Jaci's brain on the next steps for you or your child, Schedule a call now: Jaci's Calendar
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Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear! Order your copy HERE
Volume 2 No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection AVAILABLE NOW: Paperback or KINDLE
Hugs and High Fives,
Jaci
4 days ago
4 days ago
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
Gain insights into emotional resilience and discover practical tips for parents and children alike.
Dr. Marissa Caudill introduces the concept of the "House of WOE," a metaphorical space representing our internal expectations and the source of negative emotions. She likens life's challenges to earthquakes in this mental house and emphasizes the importance of understanding and remodeling it for emotional well-being.
The House of WOE evolves with age, and parents can use this idea to navigate their children's emotional responses. Dr. Caudill introduces the "Circle of Concern" and the "Circle of Influence," highlighting the power of focusing on controllable elements like actions and thoughts.
The key to emotional mastery, she explains, is practice—being aware of "earthquakes," letting go, and learning from experiences. The episode addresses questions about Dr. Caudill's unique model, the baffling nature of children's reactivity, and the practicality of remodeling the House of WOE on the fly.
So how can we use this idea of the House of WOE to our advantage?
Well, picture a big circle - this is our circle of concern - these are all the things that potentially can cause earthquakes within our house of WOE. Now, within this, picture a smaller circle, our circle of influence - this consists of just what we can control. And what can we control in our life, really? The only things we can really control are actions and thoughts/attitudes. Everything that we worry about in our circle of concern can cause an earthquake in our house of WOE, which leads to pain. But we only continue to suffer if we continue to focus on our circle of concern. If instead, we notice the earthquake, know where it's coming from, and decide to remodel our house of WOE by focusing on our circle of influence and changing our actions and thoughts - by "letting go" of the perceived conflict and accepting what is - at that point, the suffering stops and we are empowered to move on and learn from the experience, and take steps towards a better future.
Learn more about Marissa by clicking one of the links:
https://courses.theparentdoctor.com/discovery-call
Instagram: @the_parent_doctor
Facebook page: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100088584202199
YouTube channle: https://www.youtube.com/@theparentdoctor
Email: admin@theparentdoctor.com
https://linktr.ee/the_parent_doctor
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Thank you, Learning Success Academy for sponsoring today's podcast episode!
>> To learn more about Learning Success Academy visit:
https://www.learningsuccessacademy.com/home
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Are you ready to become a No-Problem Parent?
Start here: Becoming a No-Problem Parent Parenting on-demand training.
To learn more about Parenting Support or to pick Jaci's brain on the next steps for you or your child, Schedule a call now: Jaci's Calendar
Want access to ALL of Jaci's favorite resources, training, parenting courses, and all things No-Problem Parenting?
Sign up for our NEWSLETTER and get the free Make it Right PDF Download. Listen to Episodes 9 and 23 for more info on the benefits of The Make it Right Technique!
CHECK OUT our No-Problem Parenting Resource Playground!
Follow @NoProblemParents on:
Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear! Order your copy HERE
Volume 2 No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection AVAILABLE NOW: Paperback or KINDLE
Hugs and High Fives,
Jaci
5 days ago
5 days ago
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
Join us on this insightful episode where Elizabeth Andreyevsky delves into essential strategies for preventing Mom Rage. We explore why prioritizing a mother's needs isn't selfish but a necessity. Discover practical ways to carve out essential alone time daily and explore the profound impact stress levels have on emotional regulation. Learn the power of a morning routine and how it can set the stage for a successful day. Lastly, gain valuable insights into asking for help without feeling inadequate. Don't miss out on these transformative tips for a more balanced, peaceful motherhood journey. Tune in now!
Elizabeth is a stress coach for Christian moms. She is the host of the Emotionally Healthy Legacy podcast and a mom of 4. Elizabeth is super passionate about mental health and emotional wellness in motherhood. She supports stressed Christian moms in overcoming anger and embracing emotional stability, empowering them to leave an emotionally healthy legacy for their children's lives.
Learn more about Elizabeth by clicking one of the links:
Podcast - Emotionally Healthy Legacy
Website - emotionallyhealthylegacy.com
Email: hello@emotionallyhealthylegacy.com
Freebie: 5 ways to break free from mom rage shame
https://www.emotionallyhealthylegacy.com/free-training
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Thank you, Dr. JJ Kelly, for sponsoring today's podcast episode!
>> Learn Emotional Intelligence Skills with Dr. JJ Kelly https://www.drjjkelly.com/courses
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Parenting is a journey with its ups and downs. These responses are your tools to handle challenging moments while maintaining a positive relationship with your child. Remember, you've got this!
Thank you for tuning in to the No Problem Parenting podcast. Be sure to subscribe for more valuable insights and grab your free PDFs below.
Click this link: 60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool
Click this link: Make it Right Technique PDF
Are you ready to become a No-Problem Parent?
Start here: Becoming a No-Problem Parent Parenting on-demand training.
Foundation:
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Three core lessons: Seek first to understand, prepare for the worst, and change the conversation.
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Emphasis on conditional praise before unconditional praise.
Understanding Problem and Resistance:
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Clear definitions for "Problem" and "Resistance" in the course context.
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Acknowledging that children's choices matter and play a role in their future.
Objective:
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Help parents respond (instead of reacting) to your children's behavior and develop resilient, self-aware children.
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Recognize that your children crave your leadership to guide them into adulthood.
Resistance and Coping Skills:
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Resistance is a coping mechanism that protects identity, self-worth, and knowledge.
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Many coping skills are developed in early childhood.
Controlling Behavior:
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Distinguishes between controlling behavior as a means of dominating and controlling behavior to stop specific problems or behaviors.
Benefits of No-Problem Approach:
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Focus on changing behavior without making children pay for their mistakes or behavior.
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Promotes a healthier parent-child relationship.
Get started TODAY for just $50! Become a No-Problem Parent
To learn more about Parenting Support or to pick Jaci's brain on the next steps for you or your child, Schedule a call now: Jaci's Calendar
For more resources CHECK OUT our No-Problem Parenting Resource Playground!
Follow @NoProblemParents on:
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Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear! Order your copy HERE
No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection AVAILABLE NOW: Paperback or KINDLE
Hugs and High Fives,
Jaci
6 days ago
6 days ago
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
In this insightful episode, we dive deep into navigating toddler tantrums during the pandemic with our esteemed guest Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed. Explore valuable strategies and empowering insights for parents dealing with these challenging moments. Tune in to discover effective ways to transform tantrums into invaluable teaching opportunities!
Meet my guest, Cara Tyrrell, M.Ed is a Vermont based Early Childhood Educator, Collaborative Parenting Coach, and the founder of Core4Parenting™, She is the passionate mastermind behind the Collaborative Parenting Methodology™, a birth-to-five, soul and science-based framework that empowers parents to maximize their child’s early learning while raising fantastic human beings who succeed in school and life.
While teaching preschool and Kindergarten, she noticed her students knew their ABC’s and 123’s, but struggled with their social, emotional, and interpersonal skills. At drop-off, parents would say, “We’re so glad that you are their first teacher”, but she knew she wasn’t -- their parents were! This realization led to her professional pivot as an online Early Childhood Parent Educator and Coach.
Cara has embraced her role as thought leader and fierce advocate for Pandemic parents raising the COVID Generation (GEN-C).
Through keynotes, teacher training, and her podcast, Transforming the Toddler Years, she’s teaching the 5 Executive Functioning Skills kids need to navigate our ever-changing world.
Topics Covered:
The Core4Connectors for an Unbreakable Parent/Child Relationship
Mindfully Managing Toddler Meltdowns
The 5 Executive Functioning Skills Kids Need to Succeed in School & Life
Get The 12 Days of Christmas Toddler Challenge
Today Cara and Jaci talk about the difference between Conscious and Collaborative Parenting.
- What is a Parenting Mission Statement and how can we personalize it?
- And the Collaborative Parenting Methodology as a Soul and Science-based framework.
Learn more about Cara by clicking one of the links:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/cara-tyrrell/
https://www.instagram.com/core4parenting/
https://www.facebook.com/groups/core4parenting
https://www.caratyrrell.com/bio
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Parenting is a journey with its ups and downs. These responses are your tools to handle challenging moments while maintaining a positive relationship with your child. Remember, you've got this!
Thank you for tuning in to the No Problem Parenting podcast. Be sure to subscribe for more valuable insights and grab your free PDFs below.
Click this link: 60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool
Click this link: Make it Right Technique PDF
Are you ready to become a No-Problem Parent?
Start here: Becoming a No-Problem Parent Parenting on-demand training.
Foundation:
-
Three core lessons: Seek first to understand, prepare for the worst, and change the conversation.
-
Emphasis on conditional praise before unconditional praise.
Understanding Problem and Resistance:
-
Clear definitions for "Problem" and "Resistance" in the course context.
-
Acknowledging that children's choices matter and play a role in their future.
Objective:
-
Help parents respond (instead of reacting) to your children's behavior and develop resilient, self-aware children.
-
Recognize that your children crave your leadership to guide them into adulthood.
Resistance and Coping Skills:
-
Resistance is a coping mechanism that protects identity, self-worth, and knowledge.
-
Many coping skills are developed in early childhood.
Controlling Behavior:
-
Distinguishes between controlling behavior as a means of dominating and controlling behavior to stop specific problems or behaviors.
Benefits of No-Problem Approach:
-
Focus on changing behavior without making children pay for their mistakes or behavior.
-
Promotes a healthier parent-child relationship.
Get started TODAY for just $50! Become a No-Problem Parent
To learn more about Parenting Support or to pick Jaci's brain on the next steps for you or your child, Schedule a call now: Jaci's Calendar
For more resources CHECK OUT our No-Problem Parenting Resource Playground!
Follow @NoProblemParents on:
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Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear! Order your copy HERE
No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection AVAILABLE NOW: Paperback or KINDLE
Hugs and High Fives,
Jaci
Thursday Nov 30, 2023
Thursday Nov 30, 2023
Welcome back to the No Problem Parenting Podcast,
We've been sharing 60 ways to respond to our kids without losing our cool. Today, in our final episode of this series, we'll delve into the last 10 responses (51-60) that will equip you with valuable tools to navigate various parenting situations. Stay tuned as we wrap up this series on a positive note.
In parenting, challenges are inevitable, but how we respond defines our connection with our children. By giving problems only as much attention as they deserve, we empower ourselves and our children to grow through these experiences.
We've covered a range of responses, from validating emotions to offering solutions, and from setting boundaries to encouraging empathy. The key is to be a No-Problem Parent™, responding with empathy, understanding, and a commitment to maintaining a positive relationship.
Thank you for joining us for this Six Part Series of 60 ways to respond. Parenting is a continuous learning process, and we hope these tools serve you well. Remember to download the PDF with all 60 responses from our website, noproblemparents.com.
Remember to hit that "follow" or plus sign on to your podcast app to stay updated.
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Parenting is a journey with its ups and downs. These responses are your tools to handle challenging moments while maintaining a positive relationship with your child. Remember, you've got this!
Thank you for tuning in to the No Problem Parenting podcast. Be sure to subscribe for more valuable insights and grab your free PDFs below.
Click this link: 60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool
Click this link: Make it Right Technique PDF
Are you ready to become a No-Problem Parent?
Start here: Becoming a No-Problem Parent Parenting on-demand training.
Foundation:
-
Three core lessons: Seek first to understand, prepare for the worst, and change the conversation.
-
Emphasis on conditional praise before unconditional praise.
Understanding Problem and Resistance:
-
Clear definitions for "Problem" and "Resistance" in the course context.
-
Acknowledging that children's choices matter and play a role in their future.
Objective:
-
Help parents respond (instead of reacting) to your children's behavior and develop resilient, self-aware children.
-
Recognize that your children crave your leadership to guide them into adulthood.
Resistance and Coping Skills:
-
Resistance is a coping mechanism that protects identity, self-worth, and knowledge.
-
Many coping skills are developed in early childhood.
Controlling Behavior:
-
Distinguishes between controlling behavior as a means of dominating and controlling behavior to stop specific problems or behaviors.
Benefits of No-Problem Approach:
-
Focus on changing behavior without making children pay for their mistakes or behavior.
-
Promotes a healthier parent-child relationship.
Get started TODAY for just $50! Become a No-Problem Parent
To learn more about Parenting Support or to pick Jaci's brain on the next steps for you or your child, Schedule a call now: Jaci's Calendar
For more resources CHECK OUT our No-Problem Parenting Resource Playground!
Follow @NoProblemParents on:
__________________________________________________________________________________
Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear! Order your copy HERE
No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection AVAILABLE NOW: Paperback or KINDLE
Hugs and High Fives,
Jaci
Tuesday Nov 28, 2023
Tuesday Nov 28, 2023
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
Topic:
Attachment theory suggests that our children have two subconscious questions that drive their behaviors. Q1: Is there someone out there who really has my back, who I can count on no matter what? Q2: Is there someone out there who actually loves me as I am? Ideally, parents are the answers to both of those questions.
One way or another parents can lean into becoming that person. There are baby-steps to get there.
By the time your child is 2 years old, they have already formed deeply rooted inner-working models that cause them to see relationships and the world in a certain way. These inner working models can be modified by an intentional effort by parents and caregivers--particularly during adolescence.
Questions:
What is the attachment theory? What difference does it make to parenting?
What is the importance of attunement?
I have tweens or teens now. Is there something that I can do that would change how they respond to me?
How is all of this related to the gospel?
What does the name Good Enough Parent mean?
What is the Good Enough Parent program all about? Who benefits?
Bio:
Dr. Bill Senyard is an author, speaker, and pastor of 30 years. He is a husband, parent of three, and grandparent of two—so far. His podcast, the Gospel Rant, is #43 in Feedspot’s top 100 Christian podcasts. His passion is to help frustrated, beat-up, and weary Christians begin to hear the music again. He has created helpful Biblical programs and tools for Christian parents of teenagers, those who struggle to forgive, addicts, and those of us who wonder if God still loves us.
Learn more about Bill by clicking one of the links:
Freebie Link: www.goodenoughparent.online
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gospelappministries
Twitter: https://twitter.com/thekissesofgod
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/gospelapp/
Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-bill-senyard-8279879/
Website: www.gospel-app.com
Podcast: Gospel Rant
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@drbillsenyard
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Parenting is a journey with its ups and downs. These responses are your tools to handle challenging moments while maintaining a positive relationship with your child. Remember, you've got this!
Thank you for tuning in to the No Problem Parenting podcast. Be sure to subscribe for more valuable insights and grab your free PDFs below.
Click this link: 60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool
Click this link: Make it Right Technique PDF
Are you ready to become a No-Problem Parent?
Start here: Becoming a No-Problem Parent Parenting on-demand training.
Foundation:
-
Three core lessons: Seek first to understand, prepare for the worst, and change the conversation.
-
Emphasis on conditional praise before unconditional praise.
Understanding Problem and Resistance:
-
Clear definitions for "Problem" and "Resistance" in the course context.
-
Acknowledging that children's choices matter and play a role in their future.
Objective:
-
Help parents respond (instead of reacting) to your children's behavior and develop resilient, self-aware children.
-
Recognize that your children crave your leadership to guide them into adulthood.
Resistance and Coping Skills:
-
Resistance is a coping mechanism that protects identity, self-worth, and knowledge.
-
Many coping skills are developed in early childhood.
Controlling Behavior:
-
Distinguishes between controlling behavior as a means of dominating and controlling behavior to stop specific problems or behaviors.
Benefits of No-Problem Approach:
-
Focus on changing behavior without making children pay for their mistakes or behavior.
-
Promotes a healthier parent-child relationship.
Get started TODAY for just $50! Become a No-Problem Parent
To learn more about Parenting Support or to pick Jaci's brain on the next steps for you or your child, Schedule a call now: Jaci's Calendar
For more resources CHECK OUT our No-Problem Parenting Resource Playground!
Follow @NoProblemParents on:
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Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear! Order your copy HERE
No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection AVAILABLE NOW: Paperback or KINDLE
Hugs and High Fives,
Jaci
Thursday Nov 23, 2023
Thursday Nov 23, 2023
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
Celebrating 10 Years of No Problem Parenting! 🎉
🎙️ Introduction:
Host: Jaci Finneman, parenting advocate
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10th Anniversary of Hello World and No Problem Parenting on November 26, 2023
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A decade of laughs, tears, and parenting wisdom
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Gratitude for the No Problem Parenting Community
🎉 Reflecting on the Beginning:
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In 2012, Jaci left a 20-year career to pursue her passion for supporting parents
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Launch of Hello World in 2013
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Gratitude for early influences and mentors who shaped the journey
👏 Acknowledging Early Influences:
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Shoutout to mentors, colleagues, and collaborators who played a crucial role
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Recognition of the executive peer group and supporters in 2012
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Thanks to marketing and creative partners for their contribution
🎊 Heartfelt Thanks to Listeners and Guests:
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Appreciation for No Problem Parent clients and listeners
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Gratitude for stories, shares, and connections that form the heartbeat of the community
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Thanks to incredible podcast guests and authors of No Problem Parenting Resource books
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Recognition for the dedicated assistant, Kim
📚 Top 10 Favorite Episodes:
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Dive into the top 10 most listened-to episodes since April 2021:
#10: EP 133 - Trust your Momma Gut
#8: EP 164 - Prepare for a successful college transition with Dale Troy
#7: EP 158 - No Bad Kids Behavior is the window to the brain with Sara Cuperus
#6: EP 155 - The Complex Relationship Between Adult Children and Their Parents with Madhur-Nain Webster
#5: EP 160 - We Are Created Uniquely: What’s Your Human Design? with Kelly Flood
#4: EP 1 - Introducing Jaci & Remembering the Pause
#3: EP 157 - Conscious Parenting with Tania Lopez
#2: EP 5 - What is Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) - Part 2
#1: EP 4 - What is Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) - Part 1
💬 Let's Hear From You:
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Jaci invites listeners to share their favorite No Problem Parenting moments
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Encourages comments, messages, and celebration of parenting wins
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Invites questions or topics for future episodes via email: jaci@noproblemparents.com
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Closing Thoughts:
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Jaci expresses deep gratitude for the No Problem Parenting Community
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Stay tuned and connected for more parenting adventures in the years to come! 🌟
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Thank you for tuning in to the No Problem Parenting podcast. Be sure to subscribe for more valuable insights and grab your free PDFs below.
Click this link: 60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool
Click this link: Make it Right Technique PDF
Are you ready to become a No-Problem Parent?
Start here: Becoming a No-Problem Parent Parenting on-demand training.
Foundation:
-
Three core lessons: Seek first to understand, prepare for the worst, and change the conversation.
-
Emphasis on conditional praise before unconditional praise.
Understanding Problem and Resistance:
-
Clear definitions for "Problem" and "Resistance" in the course context.
-
Acknowledging that children's choices matter and play a role in their future.
Objective:
-
Help parents respond (instead of reacting) to your children's behavior and develop resilient, self-aware children.
-
Recognize that your children crave your leadership to guide them into adulthood.
Resistance and Coping Skills:
-
Resistance is a coping mechanism that protects identity, self-worth, and knowledge.
-
Many coping skills are developed in early childhood.
Controlling Behavior:
-
Distinguishes between controlling behavior as a means of dominating and controlling behavior to stop specific problems or behaviors.
Benefits of No-Problem Approach:
-
Focus on changing behavior without making children pay for their mistakes or behavior.
-
Promotes a healthier parent-child relationship.
Get started TODAY for just $50! Become a No-Problem Parent
To learn more about Parenting Support or to pick Jaci's brain on the next steps for you or your child, Schedule a call now: Jaci's Calendar
For more resources CHECK OUT our No-Problem Parenting Resource Playground!
Follow @NoProblemParents on:
Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear! Order your copy HERE
No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection AVAILABLE NOW: Paperback or KINDLE
Hugs and High Fives,
Jaci
Tuesday Nov 21, 2023
Tuesday Nov 21, 2023
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
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Crazy Cool Family emphasizes the importance of active listening in building strong family relationships.
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Discuss how listening fosters trust and understanding among family members.
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the positive impact of effective communication within their own family
Don is a business owner/investor, CFO of a real estate company, and serves on the elder board of Valley Creek Church, a church he and Suzanne helped start over 30 years ago. He loves being a husband and father and loves exercise and outdoor activities. Suzanne has invested her time as a teacher, wife, mom, homemaker, mentor, girl minister, speaker, writer, and most importantly an encourager to everyone she meets.
Their seven children range from 32 to 16. In order, four girls – Mollie, Madeline, Macy, and McKenzie – and three boys – Michael, Maddox, and McCade. They have stopped having kids of their own but now with four daughters married, they get to enjoy three grandchildren as well. And more to come!
Together, they have a passion for helping families rethink the way they do family one relationship at a time!
Learn more about Don by clicking one of the links:
https://www.facebook.com/crazycoolfamily
https://www.instagram.com/crazycoolfamily
https://www.crazycoolfamily.com/
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Thank you, Learning Success Academy for sponsoring today's podcast episode!
>> To learn more about Learning Success Academy visit: https://www.learningsuccessacademy.com/home
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Parenting is a journey with its ups and downs. These responses are your tools to handle challenging moments while maintaining a positive relationship with your child. Remember, you've got this!
Thank you for tuning in to the No Problem Parenting podcast. Be sure to subscribe for more valuable insights and grab your free PDFs below.
Click this link: 60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool
Click this link: Make it Right Technique PDF
Are you ready to become a No-Problem Parent?
Start here: Becoming a No-Problem Parent Parenting on-demand training.
Foundation:
-
Three core lessons: Seek first to understand, prepare for the worst, and change the conversation.
-
Emphasis on conditional praise before unconditional praise.
Understanding Problem and Resistance:
-
Clear definitions for "Problem" and "Resistance" in the course context.
-
Acknowledging that children's choices matter and play a role in their future.
Objective:
-
Help parents respond (instead of reacting) to your children's behavior and develop resilient, self-aware children.
-
Recognize that your children crave your leadership to guide them into adulthood.
Resistance and Coping Skills:
-
Resistance is a coping mechanism that protects identity, self-worth, and knowledge.
-
Many coping skills are developed in early childhood.
Controlling Behavior:
-
Distinguishes between controlling behavior as a means of dominating and controlling behavior to stop specific problems or behaviors.
Benefits of No-Problem Approach:
-
Focus on changing behavior without making children pay for their mistakes or behavior.
-
Promotes a healthier parent-child relationship.
Get started TODAY for just $50! Become a No-Problem Parent
To learn more about Parenting Support or to pick Jaci's brain on the next steps for you or your child, Schedule a call now: Jaci's Calendar
For more resources CHECK OUT our No-Problem Parenting Resource Playground!
Follow @NoProblemParents on:
__________________________________________________________________________________
Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear! Order your copy HERE
No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection AVAILABLE NOW: Paperback or KINDLE
Hugs and High Fives,
Jaci
Thursday Nov 16, 2023
Thursday Nov 16, 2023
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
To access the full list of 60 responses, visit noproblemparents.com, enter your name and email, and we'll send the PDF to your inbox.
Today I’m covering responses #41-50 ~
When kids are defiant, melting down, yelling at you, or crying because they are upset, want to do something they cannot do, or aren’t doing something you’ve asked them to do, it can be inconvenient, embarrassing, and exhausting. But does it have to be? Instead....
We can observe the behavior as simply that! A behavior. And behaviors pass unless we feed them by giving them too much attention which often causes the child to repeat the behavior. How we respond to our child’s behaviors can make or break our relationship with them and determine how often the child will repeat the same unwanted behavior.
No-Problem Parents™
give behavior problems only as much attention as they deserve and then life goes on. We understand that behaviors are just that—behaviors. They pass, and we don't need to give them more attention than they deserve. By responding in a matter-of-fact yet empathetic way, without sarcasm, criticism, anger, or convincing tones, we can maintain a positive relationship with our children.
Parenting is a journey with its ups and downs. These responses are your tools to handle challenging moments while maintaining a positive relationship with your child. Remember, you've got this!
Be sure to subscribe for more valuable insights and grab your free PDF's below.
Click this link: 60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool
Click this link: Make it Right Technique PDF
Are you ready to become a No-Problem Parent?
Start here: Becoming a No-Problem Parent Parenting on-demand training.
Foundation:
-
Three core lessons: Seek first to understand, prepare for the worst, and change the conversation.
-
Emphasis on conditional praise before unconditional praise.
Understanding Problem and Resistance:
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Clear definitions for "Problem" and "Resistance" in the course context.
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Acknowledging that children's choices matter and play a role in their future.
Objective:
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Help parents respond (instead of reacting) to your children's behavior and develop resilient, self-aware children.
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Recognize that your children crave your leadership to guide them into adulthood.
Resistance and Coping Skills:
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Resistance is a coping mechanism that protects identity, self-worth, and knowledge.
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Many coping skills are developed in early childhood.
Controlling Behavior:
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Distinguishes between controlling behavior as a means of dominating and controlling behavior to stop specific problems or behaviors.
Benefits of No-Problem Approach:
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Focus on changing behavior without making children pay for their mistakes or behavior.
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Promotes a healthier parent-child relationship.
Get started TODAY for just $50! Become a No-Problem Parent
To learn more about Parenting Support or to pick Jaci's brain on the next steps for you or your child, Schedule a call now: Jaci's Calendar
For more resources CHECK OUT our No-Problem Parenting Resource Playground!
Follow @NoProblemParents on:
Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear! Order your copy HERE
No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection AVAILABLE NOW: Paperback or KINDLE
Hugs and High Fives,
Jaci
Tuesday Nov 14, 2023
Tuesday Nov 14, 2023
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
Trauma-informed parenting (instead of parenting from trauma, parenting from a healed Self)
Did you know words are only 7% of our communication? The rest is our body language, voice, facial expressions, and other non-verbal means. NLP or Neuro Linguistic Programming Training will not only help you understand language, but it will give you mastery so that you can manage any conversation and conflict with ease and grace. It’s not called the language of influence for nothing.
Meet Dr. Maiysha Clairborne, an Integrative Physician, Master Coach and trainer of Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP), Hypnosis & Time Line Therapy®, & founder of the Mind Re-Mapping Co. Through her training, Dr. Clairborne helps individuals and organizations achieve mindset & communication mastery by teaching them how to eliminate negative thinking, faulty beliefs, and ineffective behaviors so that they can be trauma responsive in their communications & interactions with others.
Dr. Maiysha’s specialty in trauma-informed communication is teaching people the power of words, and how our unconscious thoughts and beliefs have an impact on the reality we create. Her training combines the mastery of emotional and communication intelligence, teaching leaders that by mastering their language (both internal and external) they can not only be conscious but also responsible for the impact of their words, actions, and behaviors. This ultimately helps them to communicate in a way that builds bridges, creating new connections and outcomes that positively impact the people, community & organizations they serve.
Dr. Maiysha enjoys working in Corporations, Medical Systems, and educational Institutions, bringing conversations and skills of trauma responsiveness, emotional intelligence, and a growth mindset culture to these spaces. She obtained her BA in Psychology at Emory University and her doctorate of medicine at Morehouse School of Medicine. In addition to gracing the TEDx Asheville Stage in 2022, she has delivered training in arenas such as the International Conference on Physician Health, and Women in Medicine Conference, and has served as a faculty coach for the ACGME’s Equity Matters Pilot DEI Certification Program. She is the Author of the book The Wellness Blueprint, co-author of the book Conscious Anti-Racism, and host of the podcast The Black Mind Garden
Learn More about Maiysha by clicking one of the links:
Social media links are on the PR sheet.
The website www.mindremappingacademy.com
They can schedule a FREE parent discovery call https://calendly.com/nlpparenting/nlp-parent-transformation
Listen to The Black Mind Garden Podcast
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Parenting is a journey with its ups and downs. These responses are your tools to handle challenging moments while maintaining a positive relationship with your child. Remember, you've got this!
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Foundation:
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Three core lessons: Seek first to understand, prepare for the worst, and change the conversation.
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Emphasis on conditional praise before unconditional praise.
Understanding Problem and Resistance:
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Clear definitions for "Problem" and "Resistance" in the course context.
-
Acknowledging that children's choices matter and play a role in their future.
Objective:
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Help parents respond (instead of reacting) to your children's behavior and develop resilient, self-aware children.
-
Recognize that your children crave your leadership to guide them into adulthood.
Resistance and Coping Skills:
-
Resistance is a coping mechanism that protects identity, self-worth, and knowledge.
-
Many coping skills are developed in early childhood.
Controlling Behavior:
-
Distinguishes between controlling behavior as a means of dominating and controlling behavior to stop specific problems or behaviors.
Benefits of No-Problem Approach:
-
Focus on changing behavior without making children pay for their mistakes or behavior.
-
Promotes a healthier parent-child relationship.
Get started TODAY for just $50! Become a No-Problem Parent
To learn more about Parenting Support or to pick Jaci's brain on the next steps for you or your child, Schedule a call now: Jaci's Calendar
For more resources CHECK OUT our No-Problem Parenting Resource Playground!
Follow @NoProblemParents on:
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Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear! Order your copy HERE
No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection AVAILABLE NOW: Paperback or KINDLE
Hugs and High Fives,
Jaci