No-Problem Parenting

EP 297 Steady Bodies - Steady Home with Deborah Myers

In this episode Jaci talks with wellness educator Deborah Myers about simple, body-based acupressure tools that help parents and children feel more grounded. Deborah explains her nine-step "Daily Clean Your House" flow, how to use quick touch points (like under the collarbone) to calm the nervous system, and how these techniques can be used at home, in classrooms, and during high-stress moments.

They also discuss real-world benefits, classroom implementations, a school lockdown story that showed the methods' impact, and resources including Deborah's book and online summit for parents and educators.  

EP 296 Pass the Test: Stay Steady When Kids Push Back

Your child may not respond the way you want right away. And that does not mean you failed. It also does not automatically mean that your child is being defiant or manipulative or trying to push your buttons. It means your child is responding the best way they know how in that moment.

They might be testing. They might be stuck. They might not have the words for what they need. And they might be digging in their heels because they don't see another option. As the parent, that's not something to take personally. That's information. And leadership starts with how you respond to that information.

Welcome to the No Problem Parenting podcast, where we help parents lead with confidence, clarity, and steadiness—especially when kids push back. This podcast is for parents doing real life with real kids: no perfection, no pretending, just practical leadership that works in real homes.

Instead of chasing immediate compliance, aim for steady leadership: clear tone, clear words, and consistent follow-through. Keep the status quo—life keeps moving—set predictable expectations, and resist rescuing responsibility. Over time, consistent leadership helps kids manage discomfort, trust reliability, and change behavior.

If you want quick phrases for these moments or deeper support to prepare for and survive meltdowns, click this link or find more resources at noproblemparents.com. When Your Kid Pushes Back, Say This

No fixing, no fluff—just steady leadership for real kids and real homes.

EP 4 What is Reactive Attachment Disorder - Part 1

Hello Parents! In today's episode, Part 1 - What is Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD), I share how learning about the diagnosis in 1993 shifted my career path from serving children with special abilities to supporting kids with mental health diagnosis and their parents. 

This episode just barely touches on the diagnosis and is definitely a brief introduction of what can happen when infants and toddlers experience early life trauma or separation from their primary caregivers.

And, there are many children that have a rough start in life that do not develop these symptoms so this episode does not intend to diagnosis your child's behavior.   

I'm sharing my experiences with the diagnosis in hopes that any parent (or child) that feels misunderstood, has tried everything, has been pushed to an emotional limit or has been blamed (or is shaming themselves) due to their child's behavior and/or how they are responding to their child's behavior; that they will find hope and support.

In Part 2 I'll share more symptoms that children with Reactive Attachment Disorder or trauma disorders can display and I'll share a few tips and resources on how to respond to and help children who are truly afraid to trust their caregivers.

When we seek first to understand why our children are behaving the way they are and when we prepare ourselves for "the worst", we can respond as the confident leaders our kids crave us to be.  

To learn more about Reactive Attachment Disorder and to find clinical support for your child go to https://attach.org/

To learn more about how to become a No-Problem Parent™ go to No Problem Parents

And please share this episode with the people in your community.  Too often children with this diagnosis appear to be just fine to their extended family and community while their parents are judged and looked down upon for how they discipline their kids.  Don't assume it is the parents fault, especially if you knew the parents to be kind and loving people before they had children.  Children with Reactive Attachment Disorder often reserve their toughest behaviors for their parents and can "hold it together" in front of others.  Parents raising these children need our support and understanding so please learn more about why the parent is frustrated or hurting and then support the child -  by supporting the parent.

 

Hugs and High Fives,

Jaci

 

EP 295 Lead, Don't Lecture: The Real Difference Between Leadership and Control

Parenting doesn't get easier when kids simply comply; it gets easier when you lead with steady confidence. This episode explains the difference between leadership and control, why overexplaining trains pushback, and how passing your child's tests through consistent follow-through builds trust.

Learn practical tools like the broken-record response, letting natural consequences play out, and staying matter-of-fact without arguing. Resources mentioned include a quick response guide ("When Your Kid Pushes Back, Say This") and a group coaching option for preparing ahead.

https://www.noproblemparents.com/

EP 9 - Consequences vs Punishment - Allow your child to learn from their mistakes

When your child says “I’m sorry,” but nothing changes — it’s time for The Make It Right Technique.
This simple, practical approach helps your kids take real responsibility for their actions and repair relationships through action, not empty apologies.

👉 Listen now to learn how to use the Make It Right Technique at home — featured in Episodes 9 and 23 of the No Problem Parenting™ Podcast.

📘 Download the Make It Right Guide for Parents
Get scripts, age-appropriate examples, and step-by-step instructions to help your kids make things right.
🔗 noproblemparents.com/makeitright

EP 294 Healing Starts With You: How Unprocessed Grief Impacts Parenting & What To Do About It – with Jason Wendroff-Rawnicki

Welcome Back No Problem Parents~

Unresolved grief doesn’t just stay hidden—it shows up in the way we parent.

In this episode, I’m joined by Somatic Grief Therapist and educator Jason Wendroff-Rawnicki, who shares how the loss of his teenage sister led him to a powerful truth: if we don’t process our pain, our children will inherit it.

We talk about how grief lives in the body, why talk therapy isn’t always enough, and what parents can do to begin healing—so they don’t unconsciously condition their kids with emotional baggage.

What You’ll Learn:

• Why grief needs to be processed physically—not just mentally

• How unhealed trauma impacts parenting styles and family dynamics

• Somatic tools to calm your nervous system and model emotional regulation

• The connection between body awareness and breaking generational patterns

Whether you’ve experienced a loss or are just carrying emotional weight from your past, this episode offers practical tools to help you show up more grounded and present for your kids.

👉 Learn more about Jason at www.somaticgrieftherapy.com

 

Become a No Problem Parent Today!

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EP 293 Safer Childbirth Strategies: Expert Advice from Attorney Gina Mundy & Jaci's High Risk Pregnancy

In this powerful and informative episode of The No-Problem Parenting Podcast, host Jaci Finneman welcomes attorney, bestselling author, and childbirth advocate Gina Mundy to discuss how parents can take proactive steps to ensure a safer and more informed childbirth experience.

Jaci also shares how she "prepared for the worst" when she was told her baby would need to be delivered via C-Section.

Gina brings over 20 years of experience specializing in childbirth cases, analyzing labor and delivery practices, and working with healthcare professionals across the U.S. Her book, A Parent’s Guide to a Safer Childbirth, has helped countless families prepare for one of life’s most transformative moments. Tune in to learn how to advocate for yourself, ask the right questions, and feel confident about your birthing plan.

Topics Covered in This Episode:

• The most common mistakes made during labor and delivery—and how to avoid them.
• How Gina’s expertise in analyzing labor and delivery cases helps parents make safer decisions.
• Practical tips for preparing for childbirth and advocating for yourself during labor.
• The importance of asking questions and understanding your rights in the delivery room.

Become a No Problem Parent Today!

 

EP 292: Break Free from Phone Distractions: Joey Odom on Building Healthier Tech Habits with Aro

Welcome back to the No Problem Parenting™ Podcast!

 

In today’s episode, we’re talking about something that hits close to home for so many of us—our relationship with technology. I’m joined by Joey Odom, co-founder of Aro, who’s on a mission to help families build healthier tech habits. Joey’s story is one many parents will connect with: he missed his son’s first soccer goal because he was distracted by his phone. That missed moment sparked a major shift in how he approaches family time, inspiring him to create Aro—a platform that empowers parents and kids to set boundaries with technology, stay present, and strengthen their family bonds.

 

Joey’s journey with Aro, which he launched with his friend and co-founder, Heath Wilson, is all about helping parents lead by example. Since Aro's debut, thousands of families have adopted this approach to be more intentional with their screen time, modeling habits for kids that prioritize connection over distraction. Joey and I chat about how tech can impact our kids' mental health and family dynamics and the powerful ways we can keep tech from taking over.

 

You’ll also hear practical, down-to-earth tips on how to balance technology use at home without the guilt trips or unrealistic expectations. So, whether you’re trying to scale back on screen time yourself or you’re looking for ways to guide your kiddos, you’ll find plenty of encouragement and know-how in this episode.

 

Listen in and find out how to start creating more quality family time with Aro!

 

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EP 291: Empowering Kids to Tackle Challenges with Confidence – Featuring Brad Dalton

Welcome back, No-Problem Parents!

 

In this episode, Brad opens up about his personal journey, including a major mindset shift when his son was diagnosed with autism. Instead of viewing this as a setback, Brad chose to approach it as an opportunity to help his son build resilience and strength—a perspective that has impacted both his family and his professional work.

 

Key Takeaways:

1. Choosing Confidence Over Sympathy: Why supporting kids in handling challenges builds resilience and lifelong confidence.
2. Brad’s Personal Journey: How Brad’s son’s autism diagnosis helped him shift to an empowerment-focused mindset.
3. Practical Strategies: Tips and tools parents can use to encourage resilience, growth, and leadership in their kids.
4. Resources and Workshops: Learn about Brad’s Positive Warrior Network and his best-selling book DNA of a Winner.

 

Tune in to hear Brad’s inspiring story and gain practical advice on how to raise kids who can tackle life’s ups and downs with courage.

 

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EP 290 Finding Work That Fits Your Life as a Mom with Mary Kay Ziniewicz of Bus Stop Mamas

In this episode, Jaci Finneman talks with Mary Kay Ziniewicz, founder of Bus Stop Mamas, a tech platform that connects moms with flexible job opportunities. Mary Kay shares her journey from building award-winning programs in law firms to creating Bus Stop Mamas, which is revolutionizing how moms re-enter the workforce.

Key Takeaways:

1. How Bus Stop Mamas helps moms find flexible work that fits around their children's lives.

2. The different stages of working motherhood: car seat, bus seat, driver’s seat, and beyond.

3. Insights from moms and employers using the platform, and how it’s benefiting mental health, family dynamics, and businesses.

4. What keeps Mary Kay motivated to keep growing her company and making an impact.

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