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Parenting doesn't have to be a battle. Jaci Finneman shows you how to turn your parenting problems into "No Problem" and become the Confident Leader your kids crave you to be.
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Tuesday May 03, 2022
Tuesday May 03, 2022
Welcome back Parents! Moms, are you tired of feeling overwhelmed and exhausted?
Is your marriage and/or communication struggling?
If so, it may be that you are neglecting to pause; to ask yourself,
"What do I want? What do I need?
Thursday Apr 28, 2022
Thursday Apr 28, 2022
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
Do you have a tween or teen that is struggling with;
• Ongoing conflicts in relationships
• Intense and rapid mood changes
• Inability to relax
• Trouble recognizing choice
• Holding in anger, then “blowing up” at others
• Impulsive or reactive decisions they often regret
• Self-medicating with substances, e.g., food, sugar, alcohol,
"busy-ness", spending, etc.
• Feeling overwhelmed
• Avoiding responsibilities, people, or events
• “Numbing out” in response to fear, anger, etc?
Are you worried, nervous around them, unsure what to do or how to talk to your teen? Are you trying to be your child's friend in an effort to be relatable or smooth things over enough to have a good day? Guess what? Your uncertainty, your "being nice" may actually be causing our kids to be anxious and ashamed.
Listen in to the conversation about how we need to talk with our teens as much (or more)
about our thoughts as we do our feelings.
Meet Dr. J.J. Kelly, of Unorthodocs, Inc.
"After 16 years of passionately working in the current system of the mental health profession and seeing the systemic sexism, racism, homophobia, ableism, narcissism and elitism…I wanted nothing more than to burn it all down. Then I decided to redirect my outrage into building something new based on love, laughter, and teaching emotional intelligence – because I believe that global healing is achieved by teaching people the skills to like themselves, or as I always say….Happy people act right."
Dr. J.J. offers courses through her Get Real Program, an emotional skills training program based on Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT). DBT was developed by Dr. Marsha Linehan and combines Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) and Zen Mindfulness skills from Thich Nhat Hahn’s book, The Miracle of Mindfulness.
"DBT is The Sh**, and I make learning a complex set of concepts and skills fun and funny. Yer gonna laugh yourself right into healthy…” – Dr. Kelly
Listen in as Dr. J.J. Kelly shares that Emotional Intelligence is key to building self-esteem, Family Values are more important than having a "friendship" with your child and why humor is SO important to our mental health!
"Global healing is achieved by teaching people the skills to like themselves. The Get Real Program created by licensed clinical psychologist Dr. J.J. Kelly does just that."
Learn more about Dr. J.J. Kelly's approach, programs and freebies by clicking the links:
Follow the Punk Rock Doc on IG: https://www.instagram.com/drjjkelly/
Tuesday Apr 26, 2022
Tuesday Apr 26, 2022
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
Have your kids said things like "you just want everyone to think you're a perfect parent and believe we have a perfect family." Maybe they're telling you to back off or that they're sick of you always telling them what to do.
Do you feel as though you are sacrificing so much for your kids and they don't seem grateful?
In today's episode, my special guest Reverend Betsy Scott, author, coach, minister, grandmother and eventual Self-Love Parent shares how Growing up as a "good girl" caused her to parent from ego rather than love. Her children discovered her lack of self-love even before she did and called her on it.
Wednesday Apr 20, 2022
Wednesday Apr 20, 2022
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
Every parent wants to enjoy spending time with their kids, but how is it possible when yours are driving you up the bloody wall? Preparing kids with the expectations, defining what is going to happen before they go to a new place or experience something new, and giving them the opportunity to ask questions allows you, the parent to be proactive and decreases the odds that you will lose your sh** with your kids.
AND.... it helps you create trust, safety, and understanding in your relationship with your kids when they're little which sets a solid foundation for them as they grow.
Monday Apr 11, 2022
Monday Apr 11, 2022
Welcome Back, Parents! How hard is it not to jump in and fix things when your kids are struggling?
The times when your kids make a mistake and you know exactly what would help but they don’t want to hear it from you?
Communicating with our kids is so important! And, it starts with modeling healthy communication with your partner and other adults.
Listen in as Bryan Ward from the Dad Up podcast shares his advice on how to communicate with your kids without having to fix or solve their problems for them.
Sunday Apr 10, 2022
Sunday Apr 10, 2022
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
Addictions, Negative Attachments, and Habits that hold us hostage are all seated in a pressure to perform and a reliance on something outside of ourselves to provide peace, joy, comfort, relief, value, validity, and worthiness.
Tricia Parido, founder of Turning Leaves Recovery, is a Recovery Lifestyle Enthusiast, Speaker, and Published Writer. She is a Nationally Certified Life Coach, an International Master Addictions Specialist, and a Professional Life Interventionist with a Psych Degree in Process Behavioral and Chemical Addiction who loves to help change lives!
Tuesday Apr 05, 2022
Tuesday Apr 05, 2022
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents! Are you raising a shy kiddo? Do they get picked on by other kids and just "take it"?
Or maybe you are raising the "mean kid" and it seems as if they feel like they're better than the other kids but deep down, their self-confidence is no greater than the shy kids.
When a child or teen feels confident about themselves and their self-esteem is strong, they stand up for themselves and/or they don't feel the need to put others down.
My guest today shares how martial arts, yoga, acting, dance, and other forms of movement build confidence in kids.
Friday Apr 01, 2022
Friday Apr 01, 2022
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents! Fat-free foods are not the answer! Even "healthy" foods can have toxins, so what the heck are we supposed to feed our kids?
Listen in as my guest Rita Brewer, Health Coach and Consultant shares information about why our kids are getting diagnosed with chronic diseases, what we can do to prevent poor eating habits, and how we can get the right food into our kids' bodies!
Tuesday Mar 15, 2022
Tuesday Mar 15, 2022
Welcome Back, Parents! We are on a roll, bringing guests that will parents raise confident kids!
Jackie Bailey runs The Speak Feed Lead Public Speaking Studio in Redmond, Washington; and is the founder and executive director of The Speak Feed Lead Project, a nonprofit with a mission to empower children, teens, and adults with public speaking skills.
Become a No Problem Parent Today!
Friday Mar 11, 2022
Friday Mar 11, 2022
Welcome Back, Parents! Remember being told to keep your head down and to not look at or talk to strangers? Well, that's not the best advice anymore. In today's world, it's less about Stranger Danger and more about teaching our kids to be aware of and notice Strange Behaviors.