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EP. 78 Tantrums, Meltdowns & Misbehavior; Build trust with your toddlers and preschoolers with the Sit in the Chair Technique

EP. 78 Tantrums, Meltdowns & Misbehavior; Build trust with your toddlers and preschoolers with the Sit in the Chair Technique

August 4, 2022

Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!

 

Do your kids believe you will follow through when you redirect them? Do they believe you mean what you say? Or, maybe you set a limit, redirect or give a consequence to your child and they misbehave anyway? Maybe they laugh at you, run the other way when you call them or wet noodle to the floor, throw a tantrum and pull out all the stops to get you to give in?

 

The Sit in the Chair technique is for kids under 5 years old and its designed to stop an unwelcome behavior and helps your child reset without lecturing, yelling, or explaining.  They learn that you mean what you say when you are able to follow through without frustration no matter how defiant they become and then.....they begin to trust you. The technique also helps your kiddo think before they act in future situations where they would otherwise be impulsive.

 

Be sure to plan to have a support person with you the first time you try this technique, and that you have enough time to follow through in case your kiddo challenges your direction.

 

This matter of fact, cause and effect technique helps your child problem solve without verbal explanations and teaches them to make good decisions on their own, from the inside out.

 

Click this link to get the free download with instructions: https://www.helloworldmn.com/page/261023

 

Reach out to Jaci to strategize before you try this if you have a strong willed kiddo or a child with sensory issues and/or on the spectrum.

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If you try it on your own and you didn't get the results you were hoping for, schedule a strategy session by clicking this link:

Sit in the Chair Strategy Session

 

 

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Title: EP. 77 The Power of Unstructured Play; How being bored offers life developing opportunities with Special Guest Heather Von Bank

Title: EP. 77 The Power of Unstructured Play; How being bored offers life developing opportunities with Special Guest Heather Von Bank

August 2, 2022

Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!

 

Today's guest Dr. Heather Von Bank shares the importance of play for children, families, adults, and pretty much all humans! She's particularly interested in promoting recess, and other unstructured play opportunities for children at school. In today's episode, Dr. Heather talks about play and its importance in supporting children's mental health.

 

Dr. Heather is a Professor and Department Chair of Family Consumer Science at Minnesota State University-Mankato. She teaches courses on Parenting Education, Lifespan Development, and The Role of Play in Development. In 2013, Dr. Von Bank co-authored her first book, "The Power of Playful Learning: The Green Edition”; her most recent publication is an online textbook titled "Lifespan Development: Telling the Human Story." She has presented on the topic of play and development at local, regional, national, and international conferences.

 

Order Heather's Book The Power of Playful Learning; The Green Edition: https://shop.capstonepub.com/classroom/authors/von-bank-heather/

 

Heather's TEDX Talk: "Why kids need to take risks" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=N9wMZYRhOic.

Email: heather.vonbank@gmail.com

           heather.von-bank@mnsu.edu

 

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EP. 76 Recognize & Heal from trauma so that we don’t ”bleed” on our children with Special Guest Dr. Anissa Reilly

EP. 76 Recognize & Heal from trauma so that we don’t ”bleed” on our children with Special Guest Dr. Anissa Reilly

July 26, 2022

Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!

 

Today's guest shares the importance of parents recognizing their own traumatic past, taking care of, and healing themselves so that their trauma doesn't "bleed" out onto their child. Using the acronym B.A.D., Dr. Reilly offers support and tips on self-care for the wounded parent.

 

Meet Dr. Anissa Reilly. Dr. Anissa has been in education for over 30 years. For just under the last 15, she has been the principal of an elementary school in a large urban school district. Dr. Reilly received her undergraduate degree from Morgan State University in Baltimore, her Master's Degree from Bank Street College of Education, and her doctorate from The Sage Colleges of Albany. She is the President and Owner of Giant Step 6 LLC, where her primary goal and passion is to develop both national and global leaders so they can effectively lead their perspective organizations. She is the loving wife of Gordon Reilly Jr. and the mother of four amazing young people. Dr Reilly recently received proclamations from New York State Senator Jose Serrano and New York City Council Woman Vanessa Gibson for her assistance with improving the lives of the people in her community. The first book in her leadership series, “5 Buckets of Leadership: Speaking in the Moment” was released in May 2021. Additionally, she is the host of The Ask Dr. Reilly Show, which can be found on FOX SOUL weekly.

 

About The Ask Dr. Reilly Show:

The Ask Dr. Reilly Show is a 20-30 minute, one-one-one session with young and mature women (and sometimes men) where we discuss the traumatic issues that are faced in the inner cities. This living room like discussion focuses on abuse, sexual issues like rape, domestic violence, and sexuality, that impact our community. The host, Dr. Anissa Reilly is a success story. She received her doctorate in spite of suffering from Post- Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) from issues like those she discusses on the show. She has embraced the “Wounded Healer” archetype as described by psychologist Carl Jung. The Ask Dr. Reilly Show is the first individual programming for the OSG Network scheduled to stream on Dame Dash Studios and on FOX SOUL. For more information sign up at AskDrReilly.com or visit the YouTube channel at https://Youtube.com/AskDrReilly.

 

To learn more about Dr. Reilly by clicking on one of the following links:

IG: @askdr.reilly

Twitter: @askdr.reilly

FB: Ask Dr. REilly

Website: www.askdrreilly.com

 

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EP. 75 Keeping Your Family’s Immune System Strong, Decrease Stress & Anxiety & Connect with your kiddo’s using essential oils with Special Guest Denise Schwendeman

EP. 75 Keeping Your Family’s Immune System Strong, Decrease Stress & Anxiety & Connect with your kiddo’s using essential oils with Special Guest Denise Schwendeman

July 19, 2022

Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!

Looking for a way to keep your family's immune system strong, decrease the stress in your home, and connect with your kids all at the same time? My guest today is going to share how essential oils support our family's health and well-being in addition to our current medical and therapeutic resources.

 

  • With the current climate in the world today around health, what are the best practices for keeping your immune system strong?
  • How do you get children to use the oils? How do you build this habit into your life in order for it to be beneficial to you and them?
  • How do the oils actually impact us so that we can address our anxiety and stress?
  • Top 3 oils for a child or an adult with anxiety issues.

 

 

Meet Denise Schwendeman. Denise has been in the field of natural health for over 15 years. She is a mom of two amazing young adults. Twenty years ago she was in search of natural products to help care for her son during cancer treatments. Essential oils and other natural healing modalities empowered her to care for him and for the rest of the family.

 

Today, Denise is a leader of over 3500 people worldwide in a natural health business. She collaborates with amazing women entrepreneurs intentionally to provide the best solutions for the people she works with. In her own quest to stay in contact with and better serve both her clients and find new partners, she's found a couple of valuable systems to boost business and provide excellent service. She’s a connector to living life more naturally in good health and provides healthy solutions for acute and chronic health challenges with the goal of helping people find the solutions needed to thrive.

 

 

To learn more about Denise, click on one of the following links:

Denise Policano-Schwendeman personal Facebook Page

https://www.facebook.com/denise.policanoschwendeman/

 

Linkedin

www.linkedin.com/in/denise-schwendeman

 

Doterra Website for Retail Purchases

https://www.doterra.com/US/en/site/deniseschwendeman

 

Free Wellness Check-In

https://calendly.com/dschwendeman

 

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EP. 74 Mom & Daughter Connection; Communicate with your pre-teen/teenage daughter with ease with Special Guest Elise Knox

EP. 74 Mom & Daughter Connection; Communicate with your pre-teen/teenage daughter with ease with Special Guest Elise Knox

July 15, 2022

Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!

Are you struggling to communicate with your teen? In today's episode my guest Elise Knox is going to share;

  • The 3 steps to listening to your teen without judgment.

  • Important things to do with younger kids to make the teenage years smoother.

  • How to get clarity around your needs and feel confident expressing them, so you don’t get burned out and feel resentful.

 

Elise is a life and wellness coach, yoga teacher, and former middle school teacher who works with moms and teens. She is fascinated by brain development and the nervous system and believes that understanding these two things can make teen years so much easier for mamas and teens.

 

Elise offers mama centered and teen centered coaching packages. Her mission is to bring enjoyment back into family relationships by helping her clients connect with themselves so that they can stay connected to their loved ones.

 

When not working in her business Elise loves impromptu dance parties, hiking to a sweet secluded swimming hole with her family, hot yoga, and cooking anything from scratch, while listening to one of her favorite podcasts.

 

 

To learn more about Elise, click on one of the following links:

https://www.instagram.com/eliseknoxconnectioncoach/

https://www.eliseknox.com/

https://www.facebook.com/Eliseknoxconnectioncoach

Link to freebie on tips for communicating with your teen click here:

https://www.eliseknox.com/communication

 

 

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EP. 73 Child: You Say the Divorce Isn’t My Fault; Why am I the one in therapy? Myths about blended and step-family’s with Special Guest Edina Adler

EP. 73 Child: You Say the Divorce Isn’t My Fault; Why am I the one in therapy? Myths about blended and step-family’s with Special Guest Edina Adler

July 7, 2022

Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!

 

Are you experiencing a lack of respect, mistrust, or rejection as the step-parent of a child? Are you concerned for your kids and how they're coping with your divorce? Do you wonder whether or not you should bring them to a therapist? 

 

In today's episode my special guest is going to share some common myths of step-parenting and blended family's. She stresses the importance of connection before correction and how to name the problem before you try to tame the problem.

 

Meet Edina Adler (MA, LCSW). Edina coaches parents, couples and stepfamilies - her specialty. Her goal is to help families transform conflict into opportunities for deeper intimacy and compassion so that everyone can thrive.

 

Starting in 2009, Edina has been a full-time step-parent for two amazing children who are now a high school senior and college student. Both of her parents were sculptors, and she honors their influence in her practice, often utilizing art and play therapy. She sometimes brings along Pluto, a therapy dog.

 

After working with traumatized children and parents in the foster care system, Edina was trained to be a Therapeutic Foster Parent, and in turn trained other parents. She has worked as a counselor in an Oakland middle school and a local charter high school. A long-time practitioner of mindfulness-based meditation, she brings an interest in spiritual traditions blended with a passion for the therapeutic applications of the arts.

 

Edina earned an M.S.W. from UC Berkeley and an M.A. from New York University’s School of Education. She holds a certification as a Family Court (child abuse and neglect cases) and Divorce mediator, and practiced in both New Mexico and New York. Edina has also taught conflict resolution, mediation and managing diversity in nonprofit and school settings for almost 20 years, and as a college adjunct instructor, on the East Coast and in the Southwest.

 

Edina is available for speaking engagements and is an authority on the topics of: stepfamily dynamics, parenting and transforming conflict to achieve a more loving home environment.

 

 

To learn more about Edina and her services, click on one of the following links:

Website: www.stepbystepfamilycoaching.com

Fcebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2215480758777011

 

Email Edina at morelovinghome@yahoo.com and she will send you her 10 Dos and Don'ts of Raising a Stepchild

 

 

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EP. 72 Anxiety is a Learned Behavior; Build your confidence when someone you love is living with anxiety with Special Guest Cai Graham

EP. 72 Anxiety is a Learned Behavior; Build your confidence when someone you love is living with anxiety with Special Guest Cai Graham

June 28, 2022

Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!

 

Are you or your child struggling with Anxiety? Did you know that Anxiety is a learned behavior?

 

My guest today is going to give us the KEY to managing anxiety which is to first UNDERSTAND what anxiety is!

 

She'll share how to find the triggers, and some tips to beat anxiety for yourself and your children and teens!

 

Meet Cai Graham. Cai is a Parenting & Teen Mentor, Podcaster, International Speaker, and Amazon #1 bestselling author of The Teen ToolboxTM️.

 

Her mission is to help parents to support their children so that together we can build a mentally healthier and happier generation of young people.

 

Cai is a Mum of two 'adorable' young adults, Jack 28 and Alice 26 - so she has been deep in the parenting trenches.

 

She has blended nearly three decades of motherhood with her background as a Master Practitioner in: NLP, Hypnotherapy, and Coaching; together with her experience as a ChildLine counsellor and HomeStart volunteer Cai created her TEEN ToolboxTM️ Series which provides parents and teenagers with the tools to successfully navigate the vital (and sometimes rocky) stages of adolescence.

 

To learn more about Cai click on one of the following links:

Website: caigraham.com

Email: cai@caigraham.com

10 Tips to Support Your Anxious Child (freebie): https://www.caigraham.com/anxietytips

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/cai.graham

Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/ParentsTEENToolbox/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/caigraham/

Podcast: https://www.caigraham.com/podcast/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCKfPLv5V3qbcfjxB5x-DEvg/playlists

 

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EP 71: Coaching Strategies designed for adults that are effective with kids; goal setting that begins with the end in mind & Neuro Type vs Disorder with Special Guest Michael Whitehouse

EP 71: Coaching Strategies designed for adults that are effective with kids; goal setting that begins with the end in mind & Neuro Type vs Disorder with Special Guest Michael Whitehouse

June 21, 2022

Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!

 

Have you ever thought about how parenting a child or teen is similar to coaching your clients or managing your employees?

 

Well, my guest today believes the same coaching strategies that are powerful to motivate 50 year old entrepreneurs are also powerful to guide a 7 year old child. He is experiencing the results of this right now in his life as a dad and a business coach.

 

For example, Michael says "Coaches work with adults to unravel limiting beliefs gained decades ago in childhood. Why not leverage their knowledge and prevent the limiting beliefs we instill in our children at the source."

 

Yep, that means YOU the parent can be the coach and set your kiddo's up for success in adulthood.

 

Our conversation touches on a number of parenting topics including mental health. Michael hopes to change the conversation around mental health "disorders" an instead consider our "NeuroType" aka ADHD (disorder) to ADHN (Neurotype).

 

Meet Michael Whitehouse. Michael is The Guy Who Knows a Guy.

 

In 2014, he came to Groton, Connecticut knowing no one at all except his fiancée and unborn daughter. A year later, after diving into networking with both feet, he was a major connector in the local community.

 

In 2020, he went global and began connecting entrepreneurs, investors, speakers and others around the world to people they need to know.

He offers his services as a networking concierge, making connections and building strategic alliances around the world.

 

He is the host of the daily Morning Motivation Podcast and The Power Lunch Live Show.

 

Today he applies what he has learned from talking to hundreds of coaches to

 

To learn more about Michael click on one of the following links:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/theguywhoknowsaguy

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mwhitehouse/

YouTube: http://youtube.guywhoknowsaguy.com

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theguywhoknowsaguy

 

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EP. 70 Everyday Movement Made Simple; Creative ways to get you and your kids moving without having to exercise with Special Guest Dr. Stefan Zavalin

EP. 70 Everyday Movement Made Simple; Creative ways to get you and your kids moving without having to exercise with Special Guest Dr. Stefan Zavalin

June 15, 2022

Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!

 

Summers here! Let's get moving! And guess what? Movement is more than exercise.

 

Today's guest is going to talk about the difference between movement and exercise and give us some practical and realistic ideas for how to get ourselves and our kids moving in our everyday life.

 

Meet Dr. Stefan Zavalin.   Dr. Stefan is a movement mentor driven to change desk work culture. Despite losing his vision in graduate school, he started a company called Love to Move, where he mentors organizations on adapting company culture to improve productivity and health.

 

The dream: evolve the current work model so people no longer have to choose between work and health. Stefan aims to make virtual services accessible to all to help this cultural shift.

 

Since starting on his mission, Stefan has written a book called Sit Less and given a TEDx Talk on the same subject. In his free time, he likes to write songs on piano and guitar, critique a good cup of coffee, and play board games with his wife and friends.

 

To learn more about Dr. Stefan click on one of the following links:

https://www.instagram.com/stefan.zavalin/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/stefan-zavalin-365b6960/

TEDx talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fbaau4DQoWA

Grab a copy of his Book Sit Less: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09PM74BPD

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-love-to-move-podcast/id1613266069

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCxsyHU9spurLF2rZg0cVBoQ

 

 

 

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EP. 69 Make Informed Decisions About the Products You Put On Your Body; How EDCs impact puberty, fertility & cell reproduction all throughout life with Special Guest Andee Robb

EP. 69 Make Informed Decisions About the Products You Put On Your Body; How EDCs impact puberty, fertility & cell reproduction all throughout life with Special Guest Andee Robb

June 11, 2022

Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!

It can be exhausting and frustrating trying to find toxin-free, safe products like sunscreen, deodorant, cleaning products, and laundry detergents that are safe for our kids and family.

As parents, we want the best for our kids and we prefer to buy organic or toxin-free foods and products but it can be expensive and labels are sometimes misleading.

 

Today's guest shares;

  1. How endocrine disrupting chemicals (EDCs) impact puberty, fertility and cell reproduction all throughout life

  2. Ways to have comfortable and honest conversations with your children about personal hygiene (and what products to use / avoid based up on their impact to human health)

  3. How today's beauty standards affect the mental health of young adults and,

  4. Third-party resources and tools you can use to make informed decisions about the products you put on your body and use in your home.

Meet Andee Robb. Andee is a senior-level executive at JLL (Jones Lang LaSalle) with nearly 20 years of corporate real estate experience. Based in the Twin Cities, Andee is an advisor to national retailers across the U.S and Canada.

Chances are, if you've filled a prescription, gotten your hair cut, bought new gym shoes, ordered a frappuccino or eaten a giant burrito, then you've met some of Andee's top clients.

Andee's career began in the professional salon industry at the corporate level and after The Safer Salon Bill was passed in 2018, she became a Brand Advocate with a Santa Monica based retailer called Beautycounter.

Since then, Andee has educated hundreds of families on the health impacts of exposure to harmful ingredients in their personal care products and home environments.

In April 2022, Andee represented the state of Minnesota during Beautycounter's national lobbying day in Washington, DC where she brought several pieces of legislation before Congress that would place more health protective laws over the personal care industry.

Andee is originally from Duluth, Minnesota where she met her husband and together they are frazzled and exhausted parents to two Tweenage girls,

 

 

Get the Healthy Living App here: https://Freebie: https://www.ewg.org/apps/

 

Learn More About Beauty Counter Here use promo code: CLEANFORALL30 to get 30% off your first order.

 

Jaci's favorite products:

Order THE SOFTEST Skincare regiman:

https://www.beautycounter.com/jacifinneman?goto=/product/countertime-regimen-set

 

 

Order your Deoderant here: Deoderant  (for women, men and kids)

 

 

Order your Sunscreen here: Sunscreen  

 

The NEVER List download:

www.beautycounter.com/btc/tools/digital-assets/6T9EzyCAn3QymAU1mFWgra?ref=3771818

 

Follow Andee on Instagram: @becounterforgood

Website: www.becounterforgood.com

 

 

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