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Parenting doesn't have to be a battle. Jaci Finneman shows you how to turn your parenting problems into "No Problem" and become the Confident Leader your kids crave you to be.
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Thursday Nov 23, 2023
Thursday Nov 23, 2023
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
Celebrating 10 Years of No Problem Parenting! 🎉
🎙️ Introduction:
Host: Jaci Finneman, parenting advocate
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10th Anniversary of Hello World and No Problem Parenting on November 26, 2023
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A decade of laughs, tears, and parenting wisdom
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Gratitude for the No Problem Parenting Community
🎉 Reflecting on the Beginning:
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In 2012, Jaci left a 20-year career to pursue her passion for supporting parents
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Launch of Hello World in 2013
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Gratitude for early influences and mentors who shaped the journey
👏 Acknowledging Early Influences:
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Shoutout to mentors, colleagues, and collaborators who played a crucial role
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Recognition of the executive peer group and supporters in 2012
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Thanks to marketing and creative partners for their contribution
🎊 Heartfelt Thanks to Listeners and Guests:
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Appreciation for No Problem Parent clients and listeners
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Gratitude for stories, shares, and connections that form the heartbeat of the community
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Thanks to incredible podcast guests and authors of No Problem Parenting Resource books
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Recognition for the dedicated assistant, Kim
📚 Top 10 Favorite Episodes:
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Dive into the top 10 most listened-to episodes since April 2021:
#10: EP 133 - Trust your Momma Gut
#8: EP 164 - Prepare for a successful college transition with Dale Troy
#7: EP 158 - No Bad Kids Behavior is the window to the brain with Sara Cuperus
#6: EP 155 - The Complex Relationship Between Adult Children and Their Parents with Madhur-Nain Webster
#5: EP 160 - We Are Created Uniquely: What’s Your Human Design? with Kelly Flood
#4: EP 1 - Introducing Jaci & Remembering the Pause
#3: EP 157 - Conscious Parenting with Tania Lopez
#2: EP 5 - What is Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) - Part 2
#1: EP 4 - What is Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) - Part 1
💬 Let's Hear From You:
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Jaci invites listeners to share their favorite No Problem Parenting moments
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Encourages comments, messages, and celebration of parenting wins
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Invites questions or topics for future episodes via email: jaci@noproblemparents.com
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Closing Thoughts:
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Jaci expresses deep gratitude for the No Problem Parenting Community
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Stay tuned and connected for more parenting adventures in the years to come! 🌟
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Thank you for tuning in to the No Problem Parenting podcast - Please take a minute to share the podcast, comment, or leave a review on your favorite podcast app.
Check out our FREE PARENTING RESOURCES:
60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool
Everyday Essential Solutions eBook for the whole family
Better Sleep: Decrease Stress with the 7-Day free trial of NuCalm Enter Code: NOPROBLEM for 15% off all products.
Become the Confident Leader Your Kids Crave you to be! Put the oxygen mask on yourself first!
Book Your 90 Minute Strategy Session
FB - IG - LinkedIn - YouTube - Twitter - Threads
Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear
No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection
Hugs and High Fives,
You Got This!
30 Year Counselor turned Parenting Advocate and Coach
Tuesday Nov 21, 2023
Tuesday Nov 21, 2023
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
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Crazy Cool Family emphasizes the importance of active listening in building strong family relationships.
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Discuss how listening fosters trust and understanding among family members.
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the positive impact of effective communication within their own family
Don is a business owner/investor, CFO of a real estate company, and serves on the elder board of Valley Creek Church, a church he and Suzanne helped start over 30 years ago. He loves being a husband and father and loves exercise and outdoor activities. Suzanne has invested her time as a teacher, wife, mom, homemaker, mentor, girl minister, speaker, writer, and most importantly an encourager to everyone she meets.
Their seven children range from 32 to 16. In order, four girls – Mollie, Madeline, Macy, and McKenzie – and three boys – Michael, Maddox, and McCade. They have stopped having kids of their own but now with four daughters married, they get to enjoy three grandchildren as well. And more to come!
Together, they have a passion for helping families rethink the way they do family one relationship at a time!
Learn more about Don by clicking one of the links:
https://www.facebook.com/crazycoolfamily
https://www.instagram.com/crazycoolfamily
https://www.crazycoolfamily.com/
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Thank you, Learning Success Academy for sponsoring today's podcast episode!
>> To learn more about Learning Success Academy visit: https://www.learningsuccessacademy.com/home
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Thank you for tuning in to the No Problem Parenting podcast - Please take a minute to share the podcast, comment, or leave a review on your favorite podcast app.
Check out our FREE PARENTING RESOURCES:
60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool
Everyday Essential Solutions eBook for the whole family
Better Sleep: Decrease Stress with the 7-Day free trial of NuCalm Enter Code: NOPROBLEM for 15% off all products.
Become the Confident Leader Your Kids Crave you to be! Put the oxygen mask on yourself first!
Book Your 90 Minute Strategy Session
FB - IG - LinkedIn - YouTube - Twitter - Threads
Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear
No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection
Hugs and High Fives,
You Got This!
30 Year Counselor turned Parenting Advocate and Coach
Thursday Nov 16, 2023
Thursday Nov 16, 2023
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
To access the full list of 60 responses, visit noproblemparents.com, enter your name and email, and we'll send the PDF to your inbox.
Today I’m covering responses #41-50 ~
When kids are defiant, melting down, yelling at you, or crying because they are upset, want to do something they cannot do, or aren’t doing something you’ve asked them to do, it can be inconvenient, embarrassing, and exhausting. But does it have to be? Instead....
We can observe the behavior as simply that! A behavior. And behaviors pass unless we feed them by giving them too much attention which often causes the child to repeat the behavior. How we respond to our child’s behaviors can make or break our relationship with them and determine how often the child will repeat the same unwanted behavior.
No-Problem Parents™
give behavior problems only as much attention as they deserve and then life goes on. We understand that behaviors are just that—behaviors. They pass, and we don't need to give them more attention than they deserve. By responding in a matter-of-fact yet empathetic way, without sarcasm, criticism, anger, or convincing tones, we can maintain a positive relationship with our children.
Parenting is a journey with its ups and downs. These responses are your tools to handle challenging moments while maintaining a positive relationship with your child. Remember, you've got this!
Thank you for tuning in to the No Problem Parenting podcast - Please take a minute to share the podcast, comment, or leave a review on your favorite podcast app.
Check out our FREE PARENTING RESOURCES:
60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool
Everyday Essential Solutions eBook for the whole family
Better Sleep: Decrease Stress with the 7-Day free trial of NuCalm Enter Code: NOPROBLEM for 15% off all products.
Become the Confident Leader Your Kids Crave you to be! Put the oxygen mask on yourself first!
Book Your 90 Minute Strategy Session
FB - IG - LinkedIn - YouTube - Twitter - Threads
Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear
No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection
Hugs and High Fives,
You Got This!
30 Year Counselor turned Parenting Advocate and Coach
Tuesday Nov 14, 2023
Tuesday Nov 14, 2023
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
Trauma-informed parenting (instead of parenting from trauma, parenting from a healed Self)
Did you know words are only 7% of our communication? The rest is our body language, voice, facial expressions, and other non-verbal means. NLP or Neuro Linguistic Programming Training will not only help you understand language, but it will give you mastery so that you can manage any conversation and conflict with ease and grace. It’s not called the language of influence for nothing.
Meet Dr. Maiysha Clairborne, an Integrative Physician, Master Coach and trainer of Neurolinguistic Programming (NLP), Hypnosis & Time Line Therapy®, & founder of the Mind Re-Mapping Co. Through her training, Dr. Clairborne helps individuals and organizations achieve mindset & communication mastery by teaching them how to eliminate negative thinking, faulty beliefs, and ineffective behaviors so that they can be trauma responsive in their communications & interactions with others.
Dr. Maiysha’s specialty in trauma-informed communication is teaching people the power of words, and how our unconscious thoughts and beliefs have an impact on the reality we create. Her training combines the mastery of emotional and communication intelligence, teaching leaders that by mastering their language (both internal and external) they can not only be conscious but also responsible for the impact of their words, actions, and behaviors. This ultimately helps them to communicate in a way that builds bridges, creating new connections and outcomes that positively impact the people, community & organizations they serve.
Dr. Maiysha enjoys working in Corporations, Medical Systems, and educational Institutions, bringing conversations and skills of trauma responsiveness, emotional intelligence, and a growth mindset culture to these spaces. She obtained her BA in Psychology at Emory University and her doctorate of medicine at Morehouse School of Medicine. In addition to gracing the TEDx Asheville Stage in 2022, she has delivered training in arenas such as the International Conference on Physician Health, and Women in Medicine Conference, and has served as a faculty coach for the ACGME’s Equity Matters Pilot DEI Certification Program. She is the Author of the book The Wellness Blueprint, co-author of the book Conscious Anti-Racism, and host of the podcast The Black Mind Garden
Learn More about Maiysha by clicking one of the links:
Social media links are on the PR sheet.
The website www.mindremappingacademy.com
They can schedule a FREE parent discovery call https://calendly.com/nlpparenting/nlp-parent-transformation
Listen to The Black Mind Garden Podcast
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Thank you for tuning in to the No Problem Parenting podcast - Please take a minute to share the podcast, comment, or leave a review on your favorite podcast app.
Check out our FREE PARENTING RESOURCES:
60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool
Everyday Essential Solutions eBook for the whole family
Better Sleep: Decrease Stress with the 7-Day free trial of NuCalm Enter Code: NOPROBLEM for 15% off all products.
Become the Confident Leader Your Kids Crave you to be! Put the oxygen mask on yourself first!
Book Your 90 Minute Strategy Session
FB - IG - LinkedIn - YouTube - Twitter - Threads
Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear
No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection
Hugs and High Fives,
You Got This!
30 Year Counselor turned Parenting Advocate and Coach
Thursday Nov 09, 2023
Thursday Nov 09, 2023
Welcome back to the No Problem Parenting podcast, where we turn behavior problems into no problems! I'm your host, Jaci Finneman. Today, we're delving into responses #31-40 of the 60 ways to respond to your kids without losing your cool.
Parenting is no cakewalk, and we all face challenging moments. The key is maintaining a positive relationship while addressing these situations. Remember, you're not alone in this journey. It's natural to feel upset at times, but how you respond makes all the difference.
Dealing with Unwanted Behaviors: Kids can be defiant, meltdown, yell, or cry for various reasons. But what if we approached these situations with preparation rather than dread? Our responses can either escalate or de-escalate the situation, influencing the frequency of repeated behaviors.
No-Problem Parents™ Approach: No-Problem Parents™ give behavior problems only as much attention as they deserve. It's about responding as a leader who understands the child's emotions without getting entangled in the battle. The goal is to be empathetic, firm, and confident without letting every behavior affect the parent-child relationship.
Empathy and Understanding: These 60 responses are designed to be shared in a matter-of-fact, empathetic way. The aim is to respond as a parent who understands the child's struggles, venting, or sadness. There's no need for sarcasm, criticism, or convincing tones.
Handling Your Own Emotions: Parenting can be emotionally challenging, and it's okay to feel upset sometimes. The key is modeling appropriate behavior even when upset. The responses provide tools for expressing your emotions without hurting others or losing control.
In today's episode, we're covering responses #31-40. To access the full list of 60 responses, visit noproblemparents.com, enter your name and email, and we'll send the PDF to your inbox.
This episode is brought to you by Dr. J.J. Kelly and The Get Real Program your guide to navigating the challenges of parenting teens and young adults.
Parenting is a journey with its ups and downs. These responses are your tools to handle challenging moments while maintaining a positive relationship with your child. Remember, you've got this!
Thank you for tuning in to the No Problem Parenting podcast - Please take a minute to share the podcast, comment, or leave a review on your favorite podcast app.
Check out our FREE PARENTING RESOURCES:
60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool
Everyday Essential Solutions eBook for the whole family
Better Sleep: Decrease Stress with the 7-Day free trial of NuCalm Enter Code: NOPROBLEM for 15% off all products.
Become the Confident Leader Your Kids Crave you to be! Put the oxygen mask on yourself first!
Book Your 90 Minute Strategy Session
FB - IG - LinkedIn - YouTube - Twitter - Threads
Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear
No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection
Hugs and High Fives,
You Got This!
30 Year Counselor turned Parenting Advocate and Coach
Tuesday Nov 07, 2023
Tuesday Nov 07, 2023
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
In this inspiring podcast, we explore the art of "Intentional Parenting" where God is at the center of every family huddle. Join us as we delve into meaningful discussions, practical advice, and heartwarming stories to help you nurture your family's faith and create a strong spiritual foundation for your children. Whether you're a seasoned parent or just starting your parenting journey, you'll find valuable insights and guidance to make God the cornerstone of your family life. Join us for meaningful conversations and discover how to build a stronger, more purposeful family through intentional parenting.
Amy Weichel and her husband, Derek live happily with their family in Nebraska where Derek works as an orthopaedic surgeon and Amy homeschools their 4 children.
In their free time, Derek and Amy, along with their children, enjoy traveling. Both Derek and Amy are lifelong learners who enjoy reading and learning individually and together as a couple.
They founded Faithful Parent, a ministry that is dedicated to providing help to parents with free guides, blog posts, courses, and additional information about intentional Christian Parenting to help them keep their children and families focused on Jesus for this generation and future generations. They have created their own intentional parenting plan that has transformed how they raise their children in all aspects, especially in their intentional teaching of God’s word in the home.
Learn more about Amy by clicking one of the links:
facebook.com/faithfulparent
Instagram - @faithfulparentmom
Website - faithfulparent.org
Book: https://www.faithfulparent.org/book
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Thank you, Shear Dynamics for sponsoring today's podcast episode!
>> To learn more about Shear Dynamics visit www.sheardynamicsmn.com
or Call or text 320-251-5009
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Thank you for tuning in to the No Problem Parenting podcast - Please take a minute to share the podcast, comment, or leave a review on your favorite podcast app.
Check out our FREE PARENTING RESOURCES:
60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool
Everyday Essential Solutions eBook for the whole family
Better Sleep: Decrease Stress with the 7-Day free trial of NuCalm Enter Code: NOPROBLEM for 15% off all products.
Become the Confident Leader Your Kids Crave you to be! Put the oxygen mask on yourself first!
Book Your 90 Minute Strategy Session
FB - IG - LinkedIn - YouTube - Twitter - Threads
Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear
No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection
Hugs and High Fives,
You Got This!
30 Year Counselor turned Parenting Advocate and Coach
Thursday Nov 02, 2023
Thursday Nov 02, 2023
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
Get the 60 Ways to Respond to your kids without losing your cool FREE PDF and follow along with this 6-part series: http://smpl.ro/60WaystoRespond
Part 3/6 - Today Jaci shares #21-30 of the 60 Ways to Respond to your kids without losing your cool.
Dealing with children's unwanted behavior can be challenging, and it's important to maintain a calm and empathetic approach. These responses can be used for children of all ages, even infants. We'll explore how to respond when your infant or toddler is upset, refusing diaper changes, or resisting being buckled into the car seat to Kids and teens who are talking back or disrespecting you.
When kids are defiant, melting down, yelling at you, or crying because they are upset, want to do something they cannot do, or aren’t doing something you’ve asked them to do, it can be inconvenient, embarrassing, and exhausting.
Does it really have to be? What if instead of dreading the defiance we are prepared to respond to it? Just because our kids get upset or reactive doesn’t mean we need to join them. We can observe the behavior as simply that! A behavior. And behaviors pass unless we feed them by giving them too much attention which often causes the child to repeat the behavior.
How we respond to our child’s behaviors can make or break our relationship with them and determine how often the child will repeat the same unwanted behavior.
No-Problem Parents™ give behavior problems only as much attention as they deserve and then life goes on. There is no need to take every behavior personally and in fact, when parents do take every behavior personally, we are unintentionally teaching kids that their behavior controls the health of our relationship with them. In other words, if they are behaving well, we feel better about ourselves, and our worth as a parent feels good. When our children are not behaving well, we feel responsible and often embarrassed which can cause anger and resentment or feelings of hopelessness and defeat.
These 60 responses are intended to be shared in a matter-of-fact yet empathetic way without sarcasm, criticism, anger, or convincing tones.
Let's learn how to be empathetic leaders in our children's lives without losing control.
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Thank you for tuning in to the No Problem Parenting podcast - Please take a minute to share the podcast, comment, or leave a review on your favorite podcast app.
Check out our FREE PARENTING RESOURCES:
60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool
Everyday Essential Solutions eBook for the whole family
Better Sleep: Decrease Stress with the 7-Day free trial of NuCalm Enter Code: NOPROBLEM for 15% off all products.
Become the Confident Leader Your Kids Crave you to be! Put the oxygen mask on yourself first!
Book Your 90 Minute Strategy Session
FB - IG - LinkedIn - YouTube - Twitter - Threads
Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear
No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection
Hugs and High Fives,
You Got This!
30 Year Counselor turned Parenting Advocate and Coach
Tuesday Oct 31, 2023
Tuesday Oct 31, 2023
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
Get Dr J.J. Kelly's book here: What Women Want - The Young Gentlemens Guide to Love and Partnership Gift it to your favorite Young Gentleman
Coming through decades of depression, addictions, life-threatening illness, and a near-death experience, Kellan Fluckiger has become the ultimate catalyst to help motivated people melt barriers, move mountains, and mobilize superpowers to achieve their true desires.
As a coach and keynote speaker, Kellan's masterful approach helps people get past old stories, change beliefs, and create a life context to reach even goals that seemed impossible.
Learn more about Kellan by clicking one of the links:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kellan.fluckiger/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/CoachKellanFluckiger
Website: https://www.kellanfluckiger.com/
Podcast: https://your-ultimate-life-by-kellan-fluckiger.simplecast.com/episodes
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Thank you, Dr. JJ Kelly, for sponsoring today's podcast episode!
>> Learn More about The Get Real Program with Dr. J.J. Kelly here: https://www.drjjkelly.com/
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Thank you for tuning in to the No Problem Parenting podcast - Please take a minute to share the podcast, comment, or leave a review on your favorite podcast app.
Check out our FREE PARENTING RESOURCES:
60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool
Everyday Essential Solutions eBook for the whole family
Better Sleep: Decrease Stress with the 7-Day free trial of NuCalm Enter Code: NOPROBLEM for 15% off all products.
Become the Confident Leader Your Kids Crave you to be! Put the oxygen mask on yourself first!
Book Your 90 Minute Strategy Session
FB - IG - LinkedIn - YouTube - Twitter - Threads
Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear
No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection
Hugs and High Fives,
You Got This!
30 Year Counselor turned Parenting Advocate and Coach
Thursday Oct 26, 2023
Thursday Oct 26, 2023
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
In today's episode, Jaci shares Responses #11 - 20 from the free download 60 Ways to Respond to your kids without losing your cool.
Learn how to respond when your children are defiant, melting down, yelling, or crying. We'll discuss how to prevent these situations from escalating and how your responses can make or break your relationship with your child.
Remember, No-Problem Parents™ give behavior problems only as much attention as they deserve. It's time to take control of these moments and be empathetic, firm, and confident in your responses without joining the battle.
Get the Download here: 60 Ways to Respond to your kids
Thank you for tuning in to the No Problem Parenting podcast - Please take a minute to share the podcast, comment, or leave a review on your favorite podcast app.
Check out our FREE PARENTING RESOURCES:
60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool
Everyday Essential Solutions eBook for the whole family
Better Sleep: Decrease Stress with the 7-Day free trial of NuCalm Enter Code: NOPROBLEM for 15% off all products.
Become the Confident Leader Your Kids Crave you to be! Put the oxygen mask on yourself first!
Book Your 90 Minute Strategy Session
FB - IG - LinkedIn - YouTube - Twitter - Threads
Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear
No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection
Hugs and High Fives,
You Got This!
30 Year Counselor turned Parenting Advocate and Coach
Tuesday Oct 24, 2023
Tuesday Oct 24, 2023
Welcome Back No-Problem Parents!
Gain valuable insights, practical strategies, and heartfelt stories to support your child's education and overall well-being. Unlock the power of understanding and nurturing your children's individuality in this enlightening podcast episode.
Meet Helen Harwood Snell, who brings communication excellence to your business. Her storytelling expertise and certified communication coaching work seamlessly to provide you with the spontaneous and fluid or structured and predictable approach you need to optimize your visibility in signature talks, website content, social media strategies, or that book you want to write. Done for you and do-it-yourself services deliver results as you need them. Helen’s quest for clear communication comes from raising three children who didn’t fit the typical mold in school and learning to speak her truth through the challenges of life. She is a life-long learner, a happy dog momma, and a true Canadian, spending time outdoors every day no matter the weather.
Learn more about Helen by clicking on the links:
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Thank you for tuning in to the No Problem Parenting podcast - Please take a minute to share the podcast, comment, or leave a review on your favorite podcast app.
Check out our FREE PARENTING RESOURCES:
60 Ways to Respond to Your Kids without Losing Your Cool
Everyday Essential Solutions eBook for the whole family
Better Sleep: Decrease Stress with the 7-Day free trial of NuCalm Enter Code: NOPROBLEM for 15% off all products.
Become the Confident Leader Your Kids Crave you to be! Put the oxygen mask on yourself first!
Book Your 90 Minute Strategy Session
FB - IG - LinkedIn - YouTube - Twitter - Threads
Check out our Books!
No-Problem Parenting; Raising Your Kiddos with More Confidence and Less Fear
No Problem Parenting; Resources and Stories that Create Confidence and Connection
Hugs and High Fives,
You Got This!
30 Year Counselor turned Parenting Advocate and Coach